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Old 11-19-2008   #1 (permalink)
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Wink How to Improve Yourself.

Sometimes, when all our doubts, fears and insecurities wrap ourselves up, we
always come up with the idea of "I wish I was somebody else." More often
than not, we think and believe that someone or rather, most people are
better than us.- when in reality, the fact is, most people are more scared
than us.
But nobody is perfect. We must support ourself.
 
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Old 11-19-2008   #2 (permalink)
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Inspiration is the only aspect which can bring you up the ladder. I always boost myself and i dream a lot of me being in a high position in my life. I like to wish for most of the things. The inner urge makes to work to achieve my goal. And that is why i strive hard. I have got lots of good results and still working to get more.
 
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Old 11-19-2008   #3 (permalink)
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Inspiration is the only aspect which can bring you up the ladder. I always boost myself and i dream a lot of me being in a high position in my life. I like to wish for most of the things. The inner urge makes to work to achieve my goal. And that is why i strive hard. I have got lots of good results and still working to get more.
I've always believe that improving one's self is a key in achieving one's dream. I've made mistakes in the past but I've always manage to learn lessons from them. It's not bad to commit mistakes as these will teach us life's lessons.
 
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Old 11-20-2008   #4 (permalink)
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The key to life is to keep and open mind about how you behave and what can be learned. The moment you begin to think that you are too old to learn and change your ways, you may as well be dead.
 
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Old 11-20-2008   #5 (permalink)
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My simple yet effective tip would be to keep your eyes and ears wide open. Give your eyes when somebody criticizes you. Take the valid points in it. I love to do it. But do not take success to your head. Take the pain in a light way and have the wish to succeed at any cost. Do not worry about problems as they are not going live fully.
 
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Old 11-21-2008   #6 (permalink)
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It also pays to maintain a positive attitude. Be grateful for criticisms as these will open your eyes and you will then recognize your weaknesses. You have the choice if you let people's criticisms make you or break you
 
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Old 11-22-2008   #7 (permalink)
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I will be least bothered on what others think about me. Because i do not have many friends. So i always feel bad and later understood that no one is really truthful to any relation. So am happy that i have no one to cheat me. I want others to be cool like me. In other words, your attitude matters.
 
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I believe that the best way to improve yourself is to talk to yourself and stop following others, One must follow his gut feelings in my opinion.
 
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Old 11-23-2008   #9 (permalink)
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I believe that the best way to improve yourself is to talk to yourself and stop following others, One must follow his gut feelings in my opinion.
That could be one, be a leader and stop being the follower. It requires great attitude, perseverance and goals to become a great leader. Being one would help you improve yourself. Be leader and don't settle being just the follower
 
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I believe having confidence in yourself is important. Having goals and striving towards those goal. Not giving up, and ever learning new things. When you try different things you never know what may strike your fancy.
 
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